In your current design you only offer personal membership, here is a suggestion to that make a split to allow business and [personal memberships with different pricing availability for business and personal levels of membership.
Business will pay more for access to websites than a personal membership. When a business can market to members of a website it does attract more members. Make it where your business have more use of features per membership level they select to use.
Get out of the one sided websites that are stuck with limitations to offer service to members. Make is where more people join the site(s) as a social network while dating still has room for more members. Some people may not join a site if it has limitations, where they would be more appt to join if the could do business at the same time as dating.

I work as a developer and here is my suggestion to help eliminate spam content. Robots don't turn pages, so by splitting the join into 2 or maor pages with a captcha on each section requires manual imput of membership information. When splitting the join pages is is also a good idea to allow your admins tot move around members information on which page to display membership information that is being requested
Most spam is done by websites asking for name first, then email, ect.
Well by asking for other information first then the name later screws up the normal spammer because they have the usual data that websites ask for first.
Making a changes in join forms save admins thousands of hours editing the sites for spam.

Hi pll.

Look at how prestashop admin is. Use something a like that to... easy to use.

Look at the demo.
http://www.prestashop.com/en/showcase_demo/

And use thingthing like the design (BO) they Skadate design is also good but make it easyer to use. (more videos pls.) when you need to make a employees, with Prestashop it is reallt good but they have a little bug... they need the buttom tjek all and tjek all off buttom. That way it is a lot easyer to give permissions :)

And better php design. fx. when you want to change " Powered by SkaDate dating software " make it like Prestrashop under the Translations menu or we can self go in the codes by ftp and change it there easyer "/layout/components/page_footer" If we change it. nothing happens. :/ really bad !!!

I think it would be awesome if we could have flirts. Admin creates them, and the users send them to other users. The same way you send a message. You go to their profile (or in the members list with the others: bookmark..ect) and click 'Send Flirt'. The flirts are sentences like pick up lines. Instead of sending them a message cuz your afraid of saying the wrong thing, or a gift cuz you dont know which one is the right one, you could send them a flirt. Ex: I click 'Send flirt'. A box pops up (like the gifts & messages), I find one of the flirts(ex: Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?) and send it to the user. I think this is a great idea! A LOT of other site builder have this option too.. im surprised you guys havent dont it yet.

Blogs need more admin contols to limit usage. I don't mind provideing free blogs, however I thinks a time frame and amount of blogs being posted are critical. I feel member can post blogs but not more than 4 in 48 hours. Also Blogs need a captcha added to them
Admin should also Have the ablilty to control a time frame for how long blogs remain on website, then admin can delete blogs in bulk after 180 days or what ever at the admins descrestion. Keeping a website fresh is important.

Currently there are no admin controls to have blog or tags content pending approval from admin. Nor is there controls to limit usage per hour or quanity of blogs being posted. Due to this issue I have been hit with spammers posting over 1000 blogs per hour with repeated content in the blogs.

Admin needs controls to remove and ban tags from being used.
Google just about blacklisted my site before I found out what was happening. thus I had to remove total blog usage from my site because of spammers posting blogs,

There are allot of core improvements that need to be done to provide more admin contols over entire site. Even if you have a subscriber there are no limit controls that can be placed on blogs (such as time, quanity or days duration when blogs can be posted and auto removal/ experation time.